I went back and watched the match and the other kid smacked our kid with a couple of hard collar tie attempts that were obviously flagrant. The kid was frustrated and our kid kept the pressure on him. Our kid could have been better about getting off the kid when time expired but he was probably still not happy about being slapped 3-4 times. There was an adult from the other team that snapped but got stopped by one of their wrestlers and it got broke up quickly. As for the leadership...you could see coach Ford and the opposing coaches patting each other on the back and shaking hands. All good...I blame COVID.