My 5 year old granddaughter has lived with me for the last 3.5 years. She is my son’s daughter. He is a very consistent part of her life here with me. The non custodial mother recently filed to regain custody. She has been deemed 100% mentally incompetent by the Va and SSDI but yet the state of NJ will consider giving her parental rights back. She is a horrible opiate addict in addition to the mental heath issues and she neglected my granddaughter severely while in her care. She has also had thoughts of killing my granddaughter and herself. I’m terrified that she could regain custody. I’ve recently purchased a home for my granddaughter and we close this weds and move in June 1st. I purchased the home well beforehand and just received the court papers last week. This whole situation sucks and I need help and advice. Thank you in advance andnim sending my heartfelt love and blessings to you!