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Re: meddling woman
Opportunistic emotional and karma vampires do exist, and they can wreck your life and plans if you let them, because they have uncanny tricks of personal magnetism. But so often I have found that they are attracted to folks they consider to be involved in a project which is out of their depth. You could do some preliminary attraction magic for yourself and interest protection magic for the both of you. But, sustainable magic means good faith. Talk this over with your partner and ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel. Then, ask him how he wants to handle it and tell him how you want to handle it. If you try doing dark or potent spells before you do that, you may make two enemies. An engagement is not a marriage, but is a negotiating period to see if you can incorporate with someone whose interests are to be aligned with yours. Thus, the foundation of all great magic is really sound values, sound agreement, and faithful responses to true outside threats founded upon taking care of inside threats, first. Your friend doesn't seem to be looking out for you as a friend, unless deep down, she suspects that your relationship is in trouble. In that case, real friends do inadvertently tend to shake up shaky things. But, you have to be the judge of your own interests and how to best pursue and protect them. So, remember one of the best ways to put that fact to use is to avoid getting too irritated or intolerant of things that happen every day in this modern world of ours. When you have integrity and foresight under your feet, then, the imagination and witch craft you throw ypon the mix has a much better platform from which to succeed. Now, I assume that someone else will come along and explain what archetypes, herbs, and chants might be best to assist in this endeavor.