Try just doing the opposite. If you want to scream at him try whispering. If you find him being argumentative try agreeing with him, even if you don’t agree. Just say, “I hear what you are saying...” or “I respect how you feel...” or say, “You’re right...blah, blah, blah”.
Take a passive aggressive stance and offer up your ego for the greater good for that moment....even if you really don’t feel like being agreeable...I know that will kind of suck...but you will learn a lot about yourself and what you really do and don’t want in a relationship.
You can soften a persons disposition by beginning with this sort of exercise...and it will certainly help you in all other aspects of life.
There are lots of spells that you can use...but they will be much more successful if you learn to not fight back and worsen a situation that is already not working out for you.
I hope this helps...I know it will...you just have to DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT!
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