if you put mirrors in your windows at home this will reflect back any negativity to the sender. also rue, sage, bay, acacia are all protective herbs. you can blend and powder 3,7 or 9 protective herbs into an incense and use a censor to walk through each room swinging it in a cloclwise motion to protect the home. sage smudge sticks will purify the home as well. so hop in a car or cab , get you some herbs and mirrors and protect yourself and the members of your home. good luck to you and i hope everything works out for you. i hope the throat cancer turns out to be a binine nodgule as in the throat they often do. keep us posted. gina