You have a point John, I can't see HM making such a statement given what we've read or heard about her and the facts you've presented.
I'm sure HM was angry to the point of being furious. The Sussexes blatantly disregarded her wishes. I'm of the firm belief that they didn't name their daughter "Lilibet" to honor the Queen, they did it as a huge "F*** you flip off" to the Royal Family and the Queen because they were angry that they weren't getting what they wanted. They knew it would upset the Queen and didn't care.
If they really respected her, they would have not used the name per her wishes.
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