Chelsy was never sanctimonious or overly impressed with herself. I'll give her that. The late queen would not have approved of Chelsy getting drunk and landing rear-first in the punch bowl but it would have livened up Christmas at Sandringham.
I think Chelsy is just fine with Harry's wedding being the last royal event on her calendar. She's married, has a young son, runs two businesses and has no time for Harkle nonsense. My guess is that she looks at the manchild Harry has become and thanks her lucky stars that she got out when she did.
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