I'm new to the site. I just came across your message and I Hope you followed Lady Mimi advice. I actually suffer from the same situation and happen to be in visiting New Orleans and went to Lady Mimi amazing shop and had the pleasure of speaking with her addressed the areas I had issues in. She advised me to get the Moxy Charm and I must say I seen immediate results. I just wanted you to know your not alone and the Moxy Charm works wonders.