And, love spells can work differently for gals or guys. As far as I know, the "I choose you" thing is almost always the call of the female to make. Also, when you use a good love spell, it acts on the witch/wizard to a greater extent than upon the target, and coming back from it might be difficult if something goes wrong. When you see someone you want to whammy into loving you, so often, his or her sporting subconscious mind is already on line with "Let's see what (s)he's got!" And, compatibility is important, but, have you noticed that people with good relationships almost always have good relationship skills? I have known couples whose lives seemed filled with harmony, and nobody would suspect otherwise. Yet, when they broke up, all the affection had been used up bearing this and that. And, it is great to "hit it off", yet, I have seen a lot of people use that as an excuse to be inconsiderate, you know? So, remember, be ready for the spell to bend your mind, will, and perceptions to its needs, and that there is always a "geish", a thing or set of things that must not be done, lest the spell be seriously damaged or even destroyed. Then, the caster is holding the emotional bag and the mark is off the hook.