I would start by consulting the runes as to whether or not this person finds you appealing. If there is a hidden opportunity, you might then employ magick to keep things on track toward your goal. Be clear with yourself. A loving relationship is like a trip to Disneyland. How much common ground is there, and how long would you expect to walk it, together? Every relationship comes to an end, but friendship is forever because there is "no agenda but honest communication", as Dr. Epps said on _Numb3rs_. If you truly love someone, you will respect her and yourself, and not try to push her into pedaling your happiness machine. Ask the gods how you can please her. This may succeed in attracting her and persuading her to spend some quality time with you. Never try to enslave anyone. The best love spells are placed on you, yourself, in order to gain the power to make the beloved happier. Often, with real faith and resolve, it does work. You reinvent yourself as a "safe place to fall" for someone who may be lonely. Become an oasis, a rose without thorns. If you would be loved, love and be lovable.
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