The best thing to do is to divine the case with a trusted, level headed friend, and take a good look at why you are experiencing problems. Rule out all possibilities with the help of common sense and a divination tool. In the meantime, light some uncrossing candles, focusing your will and intent on uncrossing your crossed condition as you light the wick. Sage the place and yourself/partner or burn some FrankenMyrhh, both of which not only smell nice but have cleansing properties to them. These, of course, are just preliminaries for the immediate situation. 3 of the best books I've ever read are on the subject of psychic self defense, and I'll list them here. They will be able to tell you how to proceed. "Psychic Self-Defense" by Dion Fortune
(For example, the strain of diagnosing and treating throat cancer would cause all sorts of financial and relationship strain. Is you finance a smoker or a tobacco chewer? Is he in a high risk category for such things?)
Nevertheless, magickal attack DOES sound like a possibility in the circumstances you tell us here, but it would be impossible to judge without knowing more facts and over the internet.
"Psychic Self-Defense" by Denning and Philips (I highly recommend the "Tower of Light" exercise)
"Protection and Reversal Magick" by Jason Miller
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