Posted by myles on 2/28/2009, 10:40 am
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When you date someone regularly for awhile
and come to realize that he or she is not
the right one, you will want to move on
and date others. But how do you break up
without a lot of hurt?
Breaking up will always hurt, but a few
things will help in healing the hurt.
Do not just drop out of someone's life
without an explanation. When the time
comes to break the news, DO NOT PHONE,
DO NOT WRITE A LETTER, DO NOT E-MAIL
AND DO NOT TEXT. Make it a point to
get with the other person and tell him
or her personally.
Be honest but also be kind. Make it
brief but avoid saying hurtful things.
If you are really not for each other,
both of you will realize some day that
breaking up was the best thing that
could have happened.
Afterward, don't broadcast the details
to your friends. In fact, don't talk
about it---PERIOD!
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