Posted by linda patterson on 11/10/2003, 8:24 pm, in reply to "Husband leaving"
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I'm also very happily married and I used to have this same dream all the time too, until I quit my job. I also just recently interpreted this same dream for another woman in the same situation. So perhaps this will help! Dreams speak to us in a variety of analogies, and when we dream of divorce/betrayal or the like, it is a universally understood symbol of separation. Sometimes when people dream of their partner cheating it is an acknowledgement of suspicions in real-life. Other times, it is a communication problem being acknowledged - do you feel that your husband spends too much time at work or away from you or not listening to you properly? If none of these suggestions feel correct, then you must look outside the square, and consider that the symbol of your husband in the dream in fact represents something else entirely - where is the feeling of separation in other areas of your life? Is it time to take a holiday from work to reflect about what you're committed to there - and whether you want to still be committed there? Are you unhappy with other relationships in your life that you want to separate from? It appears to be a long-standing problem due to the recurring nature of this theme, so perhaps it is time for you to really take time and out consider these questions. The other final point I will make, is that these dreams of divorce also occur as a reminder to treasure your relationship - for it may be you realising that you have been "separating" from your husband & thus taking the relationship for granted in some way. If it has been you that is too focussed elsewhere then this is a great warning that it's time to pay some special attention at home before anything goes sour. Hope this helps! 
Linda
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