I really want to understand this, your message is how negative and critical people are on this board, and your way of pointing that out is to be negative and critical - do you see the conflict with that?
I agree with your statement "Negativity sucks" - so please, do not be so negative.
And by the way, what has earned you the 'right' to tell others how they should think and what they can or should say?
One final thought - in a world of PC and overrun with 'thought police' it is refreshing to come to DC and get someone's unedited opinion -
One final, final thought - being a grandfather myself, I have learned my grand kids love me not for 'my history' (fortunately they do not know most of it, in particular my 'interest' in fashion), they do not love me because I am a 'Don', they love me because of who I am - if you are a loser or not is about YOU, not about any program or school or job with which you are affiliated. Ask someone from Penn State - or is that being negative?
With some respect, I think the person that needs to get real is you. And, with experience, some grey hair and the problems of being an adult you probably will.
Now, for my final, final thought - GO DONS!!! U.S.F. is becoming the kings of winning with less then 2 seconds on the clock - this is a pattern I hope does not continue (while, I want the winning to continue just wrap the games up with 10 seconds left (ops, did I just slip into negativity again) !!!!