Posted by Nicole
on 12/24/2003, 2:55 pm
i know things seem hard right now. i can say she is young and that is why this is affecting her. you can show her the positives. and there are PLENTy! i also was a DD to DDD. had the br 3 wks ago. feeling great. scars are looking better every day! i have suffered severe back pain for 10 years (i am 32). i know it was because of the sheer weight of the breasts. i lost 5 pounds of flesh with the procedure! try carrying around 5 extra pounds up top everywhere you go. it's really straining on the back! so now i have disc problems, which later in life i'll probably have to have back surgery! so at least she is dodging those bullets up front! it's not going to look GREAT 6 days out of surgery. but tell her to take a look at the websites where people post their pics 1 year into it~! they look awesome! i think she is just also stressed cuz of the pain and surgery. is she still taking her percocets? or pain meds? i didn't need them past day 3. but many women do. then again, i've had 4 kids. so hang in there. keep your chin up. and tell her the positives. remind her why she wanted the surgery in the first place! she probably looks al ot thinner! i do. i felt fat cuz of them. good luck!
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