Posted by Adam on 12/24/2003, 11:05 am First of all, she is medically perfect. There are no complications so far and the doctors say everything went very well. The problem is mostly emotional and cosmetic. Honestly, she didn't need the surgery. She was not the extreme case that most of the ladies on her were. She was a large DD, and they looked good. Some stretch marks and a little low for her hight, but otherwise fine. She's 20 years old (I'm 23) 5'6", 130 lbs. Guys threw themselves at her and all of her girl friends whished they had her body. And she really liked the attention. She was never embarassed by them. Nevertheless, she has always wanted to get a BR. Her reasons were that she thought little boobs were cuter, and that she could buy pretty braws, and it would be easier for her to go running. And she recently started to develop moderate back aches. It just didn't seem worth it. I told her I would love her, big or small, and that I wanted her to do what ever made her happy. Even after reading up on it and seeing all the pictures she still said she would be happier with the BR. She was dead wrong! Among the sobbing I've heard: "why did you let me do this, I look like a little girl, it makes the rest of me look fat, it hurts so much, they are goig to be ugly for ever, I want to throw up when I look at my self, why did I do this, why, why, why....." The problem is I'm asking myself the same question. I don't have any answers. The truth is they are going to look worse forever and she shouldn't have done it. Of course I would never say that to her. I lie and tell her she looks so much better, but it doesn't seem to help. What can I do?!!!
My girlfriend got her BR 6 days ago and she hasn't stopped crying since; that's saying a lot because I have never seen her cry in our 6 month relationship.
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