Posted by Dianne
on 12/14/2008, 12:32 am, in reply to "my cat Dusty"
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Hi Elizabeth, I'm very sorry for your loss. I am going exactly what you are. Blue's only been gone since Mon, dec 8, and it hurts me so much it's hard to function at times. Blue also seemed calmer once the decision was made. My last hope was that they could treat her with something to make her stronger, but her kidneys just couldn't function properly anymore. She was looking in my eyes and i kept telling her how much i love her.
I can't believe she's gone, but im trying to go on because Blue would want me to be happy. I lost another baby 2 years ago and it was extremely difficult. Blue helped me get through it . Now i have none left and i do feel empty inside like you do. At least i know from the last time eventually i will feel better.
With Bambi my last baby she was almost 15, we think she had a stroke, her head tilted to one side and she lost control of her legs on the left side. She was fine one minute and it just happened. We had to have her put to sleep, there was no choice.
The choice was harder with Blue because she would get ill and then perk up. She was a fighter and went through her 9 lives.
I don't know if this helps you any , if you need to vent please do. Maybe we could get through this grief together.\\
Take care,
Dianne
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